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If I tell you, chasing girls to take their time, no need to rush, it is estimated that many boys will not listen to it.

In reality, most boys fail to pursue girls, the main reason is too anxious.

If the boy is too anxious, the girl is not stupid, she will not be so fast to unload their emotional defenses. Why do you say, chase girls to take your time, to be faster?

If, to chase a girl needs to walk a distance, it is not to walk a straight line distance closest?

When guys are too anxious to pursue girls, there will be a lot of mistakes, this time, it starts to take a detour, or even in the opposite direction, so that the way to chase girls more slowly.

For example, a relationship is not mature enough, boys are in a hurry to confess their love to girls, and after being rejected, it means that they start to take a detour.

Boys only can go step by step in the right direction, in order to quickly go to the end of happiness.

Of course, there are many operating techniques, the next, I will be through the "establishment of girls thinking", "chase girls fraction theory", "chase girls stage theory" three aspects, to explain: how to do chase girls slowly, only faster?

To do "slowly, faster", the boys need to change their thinking first, because, thinking determines behavior.

The boys who are very anxious to chase girls: they always think about inviting girls, chatting with girls, in fact, there is nothing to think about interacting with girls, after interacting a few times, they start thinking about confession, such thinking is really bad, it is impossible to chase girls.

The anxious mind, easy to let boys to please girls, and "purposeful" boys, feelings will gradually deepen, which are two different direction to chase girls.

In order to let the boys in the process of chasing girls, a better grasp of progress, so there is a "chase girls fraction theory".

The girl chase is a process of developing a foundation of feelings, but it is difficult to determine how deep the foundation of feelings between two people? If you can use a specific value to show, then the boys will have a clearer understanding of the relationship.

If the score of a relationship to 100 points, proving that the relationship has been mature enough, every time in the dating, successful display of value, is in the accumulation of emotional scores, every time the emotional exchange, causing emotional resonance, is also in the accumulation of emotional scores.