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Can I find my true love on the net in a few days?
A:
(I'm using "he" as in "he, the partner" here: sex-neutrally.)
If you understand the question as
"Is it possible to fall in love with someone you've never met, except online?"
The answer to this is "Yes, but this someone is a figment of your imagination.
Even if your partner was absolutely honest, there are a lot of things that can't be transmitted via text or even webcams.
So of necessity, your brain supplies the missing information, and since you're looking for a partner, this information will be affirmative.
This doesn't even include simple misunderstandings.
And the simple fact that you fell in love so quickly is a good indication that he was lying.
If you like things the way they are, tell your partner you don't want a real-life relationship.
He'll either dissolve, or you can continue dreaming.
Still, there's a chance he wasn't lying and that he moreover actually corresponds to your idea of him. So check.
But don't compromise on security issues like the dating place. If necessary tell him bluntly there's no particular reason for you to trust him, or for him to trust you, since anyone can say anything on the net. Assume a worst-case scenario."
But now on to the original question:
Can I find my true love on the net in a few days?
Of course.
Actually, you may even find your true love by opening a telephone book and blindly pointing at some name, in just 5 secs!
But seriously, I think the net is great for first-stage dating, especially for shy people or people who aren't the norm.
(Dis)advantages of the net: (let's list the disadvantages first)
-slow speed and narrow scope of communication: no body language, no facial expressions,
no pheromones, no body odor, no intonation, no pronunciation,...
-unknown or sketchy outer appearance: no photos; fake, old or "corrected" photos;
Even good and true photos don't really tell you how a person REALLY looks like in real life.
-no variety in settings: you can't learn how he behaves towards other people or in different situations. You can only learn how he behaves when he's on the look-out for a partner.
-you might find your true love - but you and him live far apart, so one will need to uproot the other.
-The net facilitates lying, for reasons seen above. So you could waste a lot of time on some fake. (to facilitate = to make easier)
Advantages:
-The net facilitates lying: This means liars are likely to make some stupid mistake that will become apparent on the very first date in real life!
You COULD be wasting time on a fake - so don't. As soon as you think the person is likely "partner material" if he is honest, date him in real life.
-The net facilitates honesty/openness: especially in the anonymous stage, you can be a lot more open than you ever would on a first or even third date. Beware however of hunters for blackmail material. Don't disclose anything that could seriously hurt you..
There is no censure by society: for example if you want someone rich, you can say so.
No society-induced hypocracy unless you want it.
-Many, many more people are going to see your profile than you could ever meet with the same degree of information in real life!
This is especially important if you have uncommon demands on a relationship most wouldn't agree to or defects most wouldn't tolerate.
-Someone you've met on the net will likely be a stranger to your circle of friends, so if things don't work out, you probably will never see him again; no awkward situations at parties etc.
-Pre-Selection: the people who contact you or whom you contact ARE looking for a relationship. No need to think of some way to find out if he's available and may be interested in you, possibly harassing him or making a desparate impression.
-Rejections are a lot easier to take, since far less personal. You don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you.
Basic rules:
- there ARE sharks roaming the net, so take care, especially if you're the trusting kind or easily intimidated or bad at defense or easily duped. Log your chats and study them. Don't go on a first date without backup precautions. Things are no different in real life except that sharks are harder to unmask there.
Still, the majority aren't sharks.
- Be serious, unless you just want to fool around. Don't joke and don't use irony unless it's obvious even to a complete stranger that it IS a joke/irony. And don't indicate something as a joke if it isn't. Tell your chat partner to do likewise.
- Study your chat logs for possible misunderstandings. Clear them up.
- read the "Tips"-section of your dating site and others for more specific and more comprehensive advice.
Regard all tips critically, including these. They are always generic of necessity, and some have commercial interests as a background.
- Don't be shy to show mistrust and don't be offended if it's shown to you, just find a mutually acceptable solution that will kill it (or at least defuse it) on both sides on the first date.
My Answer
Dating is said to be an art. Some people are in it for the intimacy and some for the romance. A relationship depends on the comparability of both people. Many can make do with a single online chat once in two days and many need phone calls after every hour.
Independent Escorts in Bangalore
Hey there, my name is Sowmya Nair and of course that is not my real name
I am an successful escort in Bangalore and I am told to share my feelings in this web site of ours and I am doing the same on anonymity of my identity and to share my feelings with my team mates who are there in this field of escorting and to my dearest clients.
I have no shame of fear in admitting to this world other than my family members that I am an escort.
I have no negative feelings or thoughts in being an escort in Bangalore and would like to have a very much a positive thoughts on my actions and willingly penning myself as a honest confessions of an escort in Bangalore.
I was requested to tell my story here and in honesty I do not know how to write good and so do kindly ignore any grammatical errors or any any damage I had done to this native alien language English ! !
Here no dishonest confessions and I an not here to tell my misery or how I has chosen the path of escorting and not out of poverty or need greedy for money.
I did it for money and I am doing it more and more for the money that i passion and that money that gives me power.
I started my life as a routine 9 to 6 job going person in Bangalore and how long does it takes to climb in the corporate ladder and it took me enough and more time to realize I am in the wrong boat.
I realized escorting is a easy way to climb the ladder and to move fast.
I understand so many here expected me to say issues about laden with family issues or financial hardship NO and i am clear like any working lady in the corporate field I am doing this for fun and money and no less and no more.
And when making money involves fun and passion its more an easy way to live in this world and in our society being poor seems to be ones destiny and there is no kind hearted samaritans in this world to look upon myself and the more you push your self to the next level you cannot move forward in this life.
The beauty of an escort is not in her facial looks but the true beauty of an escort is reflected in her passion for her job and It is the caring and the love that she gives to the passion and to her clients her career graph as an escorts grows multiple times.
Every dream of an escort starts with dreaming and with constant endurance and diligence efforts and with enough vigor and durability and with the brawniness of an escort its easy to reach the desired destiny and it may involve too many obstacles and one must be focused and have a bulls eye view on the target and should have Blinkers (horse tack) on the move to the envisioned target.
I have a fixed target of earnings in a month and do constantly achieve my targeted Income and that may involve liasoning with repeated clients and new clients and I enjoy meeting new people on every day.
My mission in life as an escort in Bangalore is not merely to survive, but to blossom and add thrill to my career as an escort and I had to do so with some devotion and excitement and spark in my life and little bit of some humor, and some style.
The road to success as an escort in Bangalore is not easy to navigate, but with hard work, drive and passion, it was possible to achieve my dream.
We as escorts in Bangalore can each define aspiration and enthusiasm to be as an escort or a companion for our clients and the goal is to work toward a world where expectations are not set by the conventional and habitual people where satisfaction is the priority and what hold us back as an successful escort in Bangalore, is our personal passion, dedication and devotion to our work as an escort.
The common saying is slavery had been wiped out of Indian civilization after the british era and its not true and it still exists in the name of prostitution.
To the kind hearted samaritans and moralist prostitution doesn't matter and it is an matter of debate when it is done out side the sacred wed lock and we consider marriage as bonded labour and it is just sleeping with only your best enemy instead of many ! !
And no man is good as he is seen and we have proofs of that ! !
In Escorting experience is considered taboo and unlike in other areas where an experienced persons value goes up it is vice versa in the escorting business and with experience and years we weather down and our value goes down and we are like actress who have to make more when the time is ripe.
We ensure we harvest our best in the little possible time and we clearly understand that we are not saleable objects down the years. and that's why a little steep in the prizes .
We all escorts are not uneducated vigilant women and not all prostitutes are uneducated and a scar in the society and probably an escorts woman's womb can be a matter of discussion when it is been hired for a purpose ! !
Prostitution exists today because of the man's lustful needs and the way women are still potrayed as suxual objects and no man is been victimized in this society for seeking a women and a women who seeks money for her sexual services is named as
An Escort
Call Girl
Prostitute
Immoral lady
A Man who seeks a women is called as just a client and so generous is this society in glorying a mans generosity in this particular crime committed for centuries.
With the growing trends in the changing world Gigolo is fast becoming a trend in men and being a Gigolo had become more a career trend in most men.
Men of good qualification had opted to be a gigolo and trading his services with a Nymphomaniac Women is considered no taboo by this society and when we women volunteer our services to the Satyriasis (also satyromaniacs
) and for this act of a women we are considered as dirt in the society ! !
The business of Escorting is considered criminal when criminal are handling the women and bonding the women with force and slavery.
The usage of slavery and bondage with Women by Mafia gangs on women is considered slavery and is punishable by law.
"We escorts in Bangalore consider our profession as divine and if the desire and intention of love is getting into bed we consider ourselves as the most auspicious and heavenly lovers in this world.”
“We escorts in Bangalore are not crying out for help and assistance , but we as Independent escorts are sharing our experience and thoughts in this web site and hoping that readers will get to know on our inside world.
We understand and do not intend to be in this business out of passion and love to have a different man in our beds every day and will perfectly love to lead a normal life style.
Feminists Movements never dare confront us for a direct debate or dialogue and all they do is strike the Prostitution mafia gangs and ensure they get media attention on the same and we Independent escorts are levelled on our own grounds of Morality.
We Independent escorts neither confess or legitimate our career options nor do we purpose to fight against this society which always had been portraying the women as sex objects and in all levelled play grounds we are paid less when compared to the male gender and we keep hearing stories about women discrimination in all parts of the corporate world.
In the beginning of my confessions i revealed that being rebellious and bad did help me in the beginning stage and the more we started to understand the power of visualization and affirmations as an Independent escort and we started to steer our own life and its destiny depends upon our own ability and capability.
Escorting supplements and compliments all the dumb old gossips about women’s sexuality and we as a team worked hard to shatter broke the Image of Prostitutes portrayed as just mobile masturbation aids,We love to be as a sensual women and as some body who can teach a man the art of love and “The act of engaging an escort is a spontaneous spark decision by a man and is more a instinct and judgmental mental activity of a man and when the love delivers the expectations we stand apart in the business of escorting"
We stay on guard and we stand as collaterals to the innocent women and safeguard them from the mighty satyriasis and lustful men in the society and our role never in this history of man kind had been recognized.
We roll on our life as each day passes with a air of fulfillment we live our life as escorts.
Once I decided to leave my home town in Tamil Nadu the destination was clear and so was my Pursuit to choose a career that would make me richer sooner.I was clear on one matter of concern life is short and live king size and choose a short cut to achieve the same and when i joined the team at Bangalore Girl Friends Experience team I wasn't disappointment and It was an amazing experience from there on and i experienced the sophistication and class i dream.
Sooner I was the topper in my team as an Independent high class Escort in Bangalore and a favorite among my clients and I really loved the celebrity high class life in Bangalore.
I found plenty very interesting clients here in Bangalore and very Interesting stories to tell and with my current life style i have no one to share the same and penning my thoughts here to share my experiences as an Independent high class Escort in Bangalore.
When I first came to Bangalore I was lucky enough to locate this agency Bangalore Girl Friends Experience and Immediately joined them as an high end Escort in Bangaloreand I had two sides of coin in my life one as a normal Brahmin lady with friends and an extended family and friends and the other life that was full of secrets and Surprises almost every day and i could not control at moments when i am not able to share my best of experience in my career an Independent high class Escort in Bangalore with some body and had this honor of writing experience to share my thoughts with my clients who will very well appreciate ( ! ) my level of thoughts.
When in my home town my life was a messed up with my family problems loans and all other regular stuffs in a typical middle class set and it just dawned one fine day that i may be a sinking in a quagmire and the more the days passed i felt I was sinking more in the quagmire and decided to move on and that's when i inherited from my Family my family debts.
When i a kid I suffered enough abuses from my step father and started to have a string of boyfriends in my home town . Not a good start i know but this had a bearing on my life I got taken into care of my sister and when i was 12 and I had attempted suicide when i was 15 had sought counseling from then on and I was under numerous therapists but the damage was done..
Growing up in my home town in Tamil Nadu I was mostly an introverted child . I didn't like people or liked getting close to people and I would lock myself up in my bedroom for hours together and then then i met a friend at school , her life was messed up as mine and We went out partied and we got spoiled in the very beginning of my life and things went down hill from there took everyday as it came my way and I partied / Drunk literally 24 /7 . I abused alcohol When i was not drinking i would be with any of my boy friends and I was living the fast life meeting people and meeting men . I was getting attention and loving it and did understand that my beauty was the magnetic side which made myself attracted to many men around me and my life was mad and going no Page on where.at the prime age of my teen I was spoiled enough and I would sleep with different guys and I loved the attention and guys would say i am a beautiful lady then i would know i had to have them and In fact on some days i had to sleep with 3 guys in a night and I had a high sex drive in my prime teen age and thought attention from male gender was a mint in the Ice.
That is when one of my friend introduced me to another friend of hers from Bangalore. She was an amazing lady and we all went out drunk and partied and here I was alluded about my new friend we may call her Natasha for the name sake and where she get her all the money from and she had Stinking money flowing out of her her designer bag and i did asked her she said she modeled and I believed her then as she was Charming Chocolate baby.
The day dawned on me one fine day she ( Natasha ) confessed she is anIndependent high class Escort in Bangalore working with Bangalore girl friends Experience and cracked my mind with the thought why have sex for free when you can get paid well.
Here Started my day and I still Remember it was July 23 rd 2010 and from that point in my life I Started to look into my future myself and me alone and I was pretty cloudy in judgment but i try anything once and Natasha told me her clients in Bangalore paid her 10,000 for an hour of sex.
And from that day i pestered her to make myself the same as an Independent high class Escort in Bangalore and put an end to my percent mess up here with my family set up and she told me , its not as easy as what you think . But she did introduced me to Bangalore Girl Friends Experience team.
All went well from there on and my life as an Independent high class Escort in Bangalore was one big party from there on. Life were excellent . I shopped in MG Road till i dropped , and I partied all night in the best clubs in Bangalore and yes made good and enough money for my savings and I was getting a reputation in rich circles in Bangalore for the discretion and here in Bangalore discretion is key and rich and famous men in Bangalore pay good money for it .
This is how i started
Nice to hear my beginning of my story and that's how my career as anIndependent high class Escort in Bangalore started and where i am now is because of my Company Bangalore Girl Friends Experience and this how i moved on with my life when i started to work as an Independent high class Escort in Bangalore.
